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Renovaré Weekly · March 7, 2025

A Light Step and a Sorrow-Soft Heart

LETTER BY TED HARRO

This week’s intro is by Renovaré President Ted Harro.

What would Richard Foster say to leaders of the modern spiritual formation movement?

In my role as president of Renovaré, I’m asked this from time to time. Having spent a good bit of time with Richard in the past three years, I had my guesses. But in mid-February, I found out firsthand. 

Around 30 leaders of formation-oriented ministries from across North America (and a couple from Brazil!) gathered at Fuller Seminary in Pasadena for an informal summit. The first evening, Richard joined us via Zoom. 

He recounted the early days of the modern spiritual formation movement…

How they responded to an underlying spiritual hunger prompted by the superficiality of the 60s and 70s Western culture.

How they realized that hunger alone doesn’t guarantee that anyone will become more like Jesus—we need practical ways to bring the with-God life into everyday life.

How they invented nothing new but simply reintroduced people to the treasures of God’s people (the Church) from across centuries and Christian traditions. 

Richard closed with an exhortation and a blessing. 

First, he exhorted us to work together and walk together, always aiming to stride cheerfully across the earth, serving with as little fanfare as possible. 

Then, he offered this blessing: May God give you the gift of tears. As you walk on this tired and sad earth, may you have the gift of weeping, of a soft heart.”

At first this seemed like a Danny Downer” benediction. I was expecting — perhaps hoping for — sunnier words of blessing like light or power or joy

Tears? Not so much.

But as we discussed the state of the world, the Church, and the contemporary spiritual formation movement, the wisdom of those contrasting postures became clear. 

A light step. A sorrow-soft heart. Sounds a lot like Jesus. And it might just be the kind of person our crazy world needs today.

Ted Harro

Ted Harro
Renovaré President

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LET’S DIVE IN...

CURATED BY GRACE POUCH

During this season we will have a pared down list here in Let’s Dive In — three invitations rather than six. This is to make space for special Lenten readings and practices you might have lined up, or simply to have a less busy, more spacious season for conversation with God. 

  1. 1.

    Read Catching a Glimpse of God’s Heart” from Richard Foster’s book Prayer.

  2. 2.

    Vulnerability is a divine attribute. God is a vulnerable God,” writes A.J. Swoboda in his essay on Jesus’ anguish in Gethsemane.

  3. 3.

    In this tender piece, Renovaré’s Director of Education, Carolyn Arends, writes about learning to let herself feel sad. Read Stoicism Isn’t Spiritual.” 

Grace Pouch

Grace Pouch
Content Manager

WORTH QUOTING

How good of God to provide us a way into his heart. He knows that we are stiff-necked and hard-hearted, so he has provided a means of entrance. Jesus, the Christ.…”

– Richard Foster (source)

TO CONTEMPLATE

He wept over it”
Enrique Simonet 1892 (source)

In Luke 19, just before the famous scene where Jesus clears the temple, he stands outside of Jerusalem and weeps. It’s one of several displays of emotion as the people around Jesus grow increasingly hard-hearted toward his gospel and hostile to his claims. I appreciate how the artist shows different figures responding to Jesus’ tears. Some look curious or shocked, others seem concerned and deeply moved. Letting whatever breaks God’s heart break our hearts is one aspect of what it means to follow Jesus.

TO PONDER

What sign of God’s goodness is bringing you cheer today?

What deep need for God’s peace or healing is bringing you sorrow today?

Hold these noticings before the Lord as a prayer.