Spiritual Scorekeeping, Finding Real Friends, and Avoiding Content Overwhelm
Welcome back to Friends In Formation, a podcast where listener questions set the table for conversations on Christian spiritual formation — brought to you by the Renovaré monthly giving community.
We’re thrilled to relaunch the show with James Catford, Richella Parham, and new host Tiana Spencer.
In this episode, three listener questions open up rich conversation about the pressures we put on ourselves in the spiritual life and how to find freedom.
- How do we keep the world’s measurements and gauging at bay when we seek to draw closer to God?
- Where are the adults who want to invest time in friendship and fellowship without an agenda?
- How do I select from all the books and resources available without feeling overwhelmed or condemned by the pile?
We’d love to hear your question! Submit one here.
What We’re Enjoying Right Now
- Train Dreams (film on Netflix | trailer ) — recommended by Richella
- Come Away and Rest: A Guide to Personal Spiritual Retreats by Alyson Pryor — recommended by Tiana
- Wounded I Sing by Richard Harries, a reflection on George Herbert’s poetry — recommended by James
More Links
- Learn about Renovaré’s Friends in Formation Monthly Giving Community
- Friendship Lab (founded by Sheridan Voysey)
- Al-Anon Groups
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Tiana Spencer
Tiana Spencer is a Bible teacher, preacher, and story-informed spiritual formation guide with decades of ministry experience. Holding a Biblical Studies degree from Biola University and trained in trauma-informed care through The Allender Center, she teaches at the intersection of Scripture and personal story. As the founder of Intentionally Her, Tiana is passionate about creating emotionally safe spaces where people of all backgrounds can experience healing, freedom, and joy in the presence of God.
James Catford
James Catford has spent his career at the intersection of publishing, leadership, and spiritual formation, working with many authors closely connected to Renovaré. He led the British Bible Society for fourteen years, founded the think tank Theos, and later chaired SPCK, the UK’s largest Christian publisher. He now serves as founding chair of the Center for Christianity and Public Life in Washington, D.C., and on the board of the Martin Institute and Dallas Willard Research Center at Westmont College. He is married to Sue, a former TV anchor and media executive.
Richella Parham
Richella is Chair of the Renovaré Board of Trustees. With a background in small business, education, and church leadership, Richella is a speaker and the author of Mythical Me (IVP) and A Spiritual Formation Primer. She is the mother of three young adult sons and lives with her husband Jack in Durham, North Carolina. Read her full bio and connect with Richella at richellajparham.com.